6 tips for writing a great wedding toast

Introduction

A memorable wedding toast can be anything from unnecessarily lengthy and drawn out to funny and light-hearted. Everyone has experienced listening to a toast that is disjointed, uncomfortable, or just not connecting. But we've also all heard sincere, individual speeches that offer a fascinating view into the lives of persons being honoured.

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Once everyone is seated for dinner, it's customary for the wedding hosts, best man, and maid of honour to make brief toasts. On occasion, the groom will address his bride and the guests during the reception with a brief speech.

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6 tips for writing a great wedding toast

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• Don't wing it: Write down your speech beforehand so you know where to start, what should go in the middle, and how you want it to conclude. You may not need to refer to notes before you deliver your speech.

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• Initiation: Describe yourself, including your name and connection to the couple. If you have a nickname for one of the pair or have known them for a certain amount of time, you may include a brief description of your first encounter with them. Please keep this section brief.

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• Thank the couple and the wedding hosts for bringing everyone together. You may use this time to double-check your pronunciation of everyone's names by writing this out. Giving thanks at the beginning of your toast fosters an attitude of thankfulness. The phrase "I'm so grateful to be a part of this great day because..." comes to mind. Setting the tone for a unique and thoughtful toast will be talking about why this particular occasion is particularly significant.

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• A single phrase or tale that defines you: Think about the person you are toasting for a while. Do you have a certain word in mind when you think of them? Is there a particular recollection that best exemplifies their humour, originality, or thoughtfulness? Avoid stories that are off-color or offensive. While a little context might be helpful, make sure you include only the relevant details of the story. 

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• Add a few examples to support your claim: Even while it sometimes just takes one memorable tale to make a point, it's also acceptable to share a few stories about your friendship with the newlyweds. Choose illustrations that everyone will be able to relate to and find interesting. Instead of tearing the couple apart in front of their family and friends, your toast should strengthen them. Recall that this is a toast rather than a roast.

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• Tie it all together with a lovely gesture: Since you've already discussed some of your personal history with the couple, it's time to laud them and extend your congratulations on their recent legal union. Take into account concepts like how the individual is better and happier as a result of their companion. It can also be memorable to end with a wish for the couple and send them into their marriage with the hope of more good things to come.

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Conclusion

Remember that brief is better, so keep it under five minutes, and don’t forget to toast the couple at the end of the speech! Once everyone has raised their glasses, you can rest assured that you’ve delivered a memorable toast.  You can also download our app from the playstore or visit our website.

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